The Fem Tell All Podcast

Love is Blind?

In this week's episode, Ruth and Maddie discuss the age-old theory of whether love is blind or not. Although they have opposing views, one of the ladies becomes quite convincing by the end of the episode. Maddie and Ruth share personal stories to support their arguments, discussing whether men and women have a "type" and how evolution may play a role in all of this. So, do you believe that love is blind?

Self-Sabotage

In this week's episode Ruth and Maddie cover Self- Sabotage. After having a run-in with a man who spewed self-hatred on Maddie at the bar after 5 minutes of knowing him, Maddie and Ruth discovered this may be a larger issue at hand that most men are facing. Although this is not a gendered experience, Ruth and Maddie wanted to explore the reasons behind what happens to be a new surge of low self-worth for men. This topic is so nuanced that the ladies plan to have additional episodes to follow.

"I Love My Birth Control"

On this week's episode, Ruth and Maddie cover the good, bad, and ugly of birth control!! Let's talk contraceptives, baby. The ladies share personal stories about condom mishaps, IUD insertions, and a fluctuating sex drive. Are hormonal birth control side effects worth the price of admission? Should men take more responsibility for birth control in a heterosexual relationship? Listen as they weigh in!

Navigating Adult Friendships

In this week’s episode, Maddie and Ruth discuss adult friendships, which aren’t always easy. When is it ok to leave a friendship? Should there be a checklist of qualities for a friend? Is it better to have quantity or quality? The ladies dive into this sticky yet important conversation.

The Orange Peel Theory

In this week’s episode, Ruth and Maddie discuss the trending “Orange Peel Theory” and what it means if your partner does or does not "pass the test." The ladies dig into the meaning behind the test, recalling tender memories of what people have done for them in the past and do for them in the present.

It's That Time of the Month!

In this week's episode, Ruth and Maddie cover a person's "time of the month." The ladies talk about their own first experience getting their periods, how uneducated and unaware they were of the symptoms of a menstrual cycle, and even touch on the very taboo subject of period sex! Whether you're someone who knows the period roller coaster personally, someone who hasn't gotten their period yet, or just a partner and/or parent trying to figure out the best way to support the menstruating people in their life we hope you enjoy!

Men Vs. Women: Household Roles

In this week's episode, Maddie and Ruth discuss Men vs Women: Household Roles edition. What some may believe to be the hard-and-fast truth, and what they believe is a true household "duty" for each partner. How do you and your partner share the duties at home? Does this change over time or with different life circumstances?

Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby

On this week's episode Maddie and Ruth discuss the pinnacle taboo subject, sex! Everything from suggested frequency, tips on foreplay, advice on how to communicate your wants and needs to your partner, and the overall best and worst personal sex stories they have. It's time to destigmatize the long and hard journey to a happy, healthy, and fulfilling sex life!

Ghosting: Yay or Nay?

On this week's episode, Ruth and Maddie cover Ghosting. They both define "ghosting", when they believe it's appropriate to ghost (if at all), and the better alternatives to letting someone down rather than cutting off communication with no warning.

Goals: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

In this week's episode Maddie and Ruth discuss New Year's Goals! They dive into their personal goals, what goals should take precedence, and how to sustain them come the new year. We hope you enjoy and Happy New Year!!
The Personality Archetypes Maddie referenced in this episode are The Four Tendencies.